Easy way to find your partner The 'I’ll find love when am not looking’ approach may be wrong. That’s like saying, “You’ll find a job when you’re least looking for it" It’s possible, but rarely happens. For the most part, people who wait for a job are unemployed,it’s just an excuse for being scared to go and put the effort in. Yes, it happens, but no, it’s not a good strategy And the underlying sentiment of saying: Don’t be desperate! Is a dream killer,Put the effort in to find someone, but don’t act as if is your last chance. Go where people like the same things you like. You can skip singles events if you don’t like them, but you have to go where you can meet people,Join social groups or meet-ups; be a worker bee in a cause you believe in; get involved in political or church activities. At the very least, you’re doing something you like and at the very best, you'll meet somebody like-minded. Hence you are online, try a different dating site there are po...